Relationships - Happy ?

Relationships are like sine curve, with its own ups and down; crests and troughs. Sound like a cliche ? It is ! Entire life is like a sine curve; one who has seen crests in one aspect of life would have seen troughs in other. That's the way life is - isn't it? Why would relationships be any different?

"You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever.... connections are made with the heart, not the tongue." - C. JoyBell C.

Relationship can also be tricky, and painful. Very painful !

Don't you sometime secretly wish to end all relationships and be content in yourself ? Don't you hate the fact that sometimes how codependent you get, and this constant neurotic craving for a meaningful relationship, to feel complete and fulfilled.

Well, there is a good news, and a bad news. As Usual!

Let's start with the good news - You are not the only one who feels this way. Each one of us goes through similar ups and downs, including that friend of yours, who you think is the happiest person on earth.

"Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?" ― Mary Manin Morrissey

You have to accept the fact that relationships are intriguing, complicated and sometimes extremely baffling, else why would there be so many spiritual beings. Drowned in relationships since origin, few of us are nurtured into the concept of aesthetic world, a habitat of selfless beings. Well Duh! One fine day we meet life, face to face, only to realize that we have been sabotaged all along, crippled by our own loved ones. Well, the learning and unlearning never ceases, birth after birth.

You with me till here ? Good, because that's only one side of the coin.

Whats other ?

"When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter." ― Tom Robbins

Remember the bad news we talked 'bout earlier. We are responsible for our fulfillment. Period !

Other side of coin is also to have a peekaboo with your inner-self.

Get it ? Still have questions?

Jyotish helps you understand your 'pain points' and remedies, but let me point out here - Unless you are committed to change your life for better, even almighty will not be able to help you. 

Jyotish provides a platform for you to understand your karma, and how they manifest in current life. Through proper remedies and a healthy attitude, I assure you of a positive outcome.

Horoscope analysis helps to understand all our relationships, and the significant areas that need immediate attention. How can we overlook the fact that people divert all their time and effort to focus on 80% of cascading problems, instead of fixing the important 20%, that if solved, would by itself solve other 80%. 

That's where Jyotish gets an edge, of hand-holding you to understand your main issues, and further helping you understand your relationship with your parents, siblings, partner and society.

I will point it again - Jyotish can help you change your life for good, only if you are willing to change.

Also, the million dollar question is - are you unhappy because you are not getting married ? OR because your best friends got married before you?

We will figure it out. Dont worry!